Hubby & Me	Cake Time
We almost broke the Vietnamese bed!
My residence for 2 nights 3 days in Kuala Lumpur, thanks to Mindvalley

September ended on a high for me as I celebrated my birthday on the 27th amongst family and friends. My brother in law and my sister in law hosted a wonderful birthday lunch for me and I felt completely blessed to have such lovely supportive folks around me!

The very next day, September 28th I was off to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Mindvalley, a global brand and company that invests in ideas, products, people that help human beings lead happier healthier lives, and has a subscriber base of well over 2 million, flew me down and hosted me for 2 nights 3 days. I was shooting episodes of my key teachings to be aired early 2015 on their TV channel. The shoot was fun, exciting, exhausting and a new learning experience. After all the "work" , it was time to relax, chill and catch up with my old friends based in Kuala Lumpur!

As I look back at the past 9 months, I feel happily amazed at my journey and am eager and excited for all that is in store!

Are you feeling deeply satisfied and happy with where you are and eager for what’s coming? I do hope so! And if you are finding that you are bumping into different blocks in your journey to your dreams, my featured article may help you identify a missing piece that’s may be holding you back!

Wishing you happiness and success!

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Are you aligned with your dreams?

Hi!

Are You Aligned With Your Dreams?

At the start of every year, most folks set intentions, make resolutions about things they want to experience or achieve. Sadly it seems 9 out of those 10 people, never reach their goals! In fact even those that are aware about the law of attraction and vision boards, affirmations and "positive thinking", find themselves struggling and stuck!

7 years ago, I was amongst those 9 out of 10 who never reached their goals. However from telling myself in 2007 "you can’t have it all", I went to creating my dream life and in June 2014 co-authored a #1 international best selling book, Pebbles In The Pond Wave III, and titled my chapter "You Can Have It All!"

I am truly living a life way better than I ever dreamed possible and have guided hundreds of others to do the same. In this 7 year journey from being stuck on bed with chronic pain to peace and bliss, I’ve discovered KEY PIECES that are essential to manifesting your dreams. In my Divine Manifestation Program, I guide clients through a 6 Step Process to creating the life they want. And one very important step of those 6 steps is called "Aligning with your desires"!

What do I mean by "aligning with your desires"? Very simply, imagine school kids "getting into a straight line" for an activity. So "alignment with your desires" is all about getting "in line" with, being congruent with, what you truly want.

So my "Aligning with your desires" step has 4 parts to it:

1. Know it
   
2. Feel It
   
3. See It
   
4. Believe It

1. Know it - is really about being clear about what you truly want. Knowing what you desire. Many people don’t really know what they want. Some are scared to have desires, some are confused. So if you are not sure, unclear, in doubt about what you want, you are sending mixed messages to the universe and it brings you mixed up results.

The very first step in getting to your dreams is to be clear about what you want from this buffet that life has to offer!

2. Feel it - When you think of this thing that you want, how do you FEEL? Nervous, scared, fear? Or are you feeling a strong sense of eagerness, excitement, expectation for it? If you are not feeling positive 100%, you are not a 100% "in line" with your desire. You need to get this piece in line by releasing those doubts and worries and replacing them with positive feelings.

3. See it - Can you visualize what you desire in your mind? Can you see the picture clearly? Can you see yourself achieving this and living this dream? When you can visualize it clearly, you are on the fast track to your dreams!

4. Believe it – another important piece without which everything breaks down is believing in your dreams a 100%. Your dreams need YOU! Without YOU believing in them, they are rootless, just fluffy clouds floating in the air! You have to believe in your dreams despite all the obstacles that might pop up. Otherwise you will easily give up when things get rough!

So ask yourself, on a scale of 0-10, where am I on each of those 4 different areas: Know it, Feel It, See it, Believe it? The closer you are to a 10 in each area, the more aligned you are with your dreams and the more likely you are to achieving them!

While there are several different pieces that are key in manifesting your dreams, I hope this piece helps you get started and sheds some light on why you may be stuck moving forward with your dreams. Awareness is always key. Once you are aware of what’s not working, you can find ways around it and move past it.

For those of you who are on a very focused path to your dreams, and find yourself overwhelmed,frustrated, stuck, alone, and feel ready for expert support and guidance, feel free to fill in the online survey at www.eftthailand.com/survey . If you qualify, I am happy to offer a complimentary online Readiness Assessment Session and see if and how I can support you further.

I believe in living each day fully. I believe our dreams are the fuel that make our life fun, focused and meaningful. Your dreams need YOU a 100%. Are you in? Will you play fully? It’s a choice you have to make!

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"After many years of not understanding exactly why my life was not moving forward in many different directions, love, work and achieving my dreams, I realized the reason why was because I was getting in my own way. I spent so many years in the cycle of self-sabotage on many levels, being crippled with fear, drowned in a pool of self-doubt/self-loathing, having a life run on auto-pilot with behaviors and patterns that did not serve me and feeling unworthy.

I heard of Shalini and EFT from a friend of mine a couple of years back, however I didn’t take much notice. I thought the other healing modalities I was trying, would probably do it. I tried many different healing modalities, from the traditional talking to a therapist for three years to other alternative healing modalities. I felt better but I still felt hopeless, annoyed with myself because the "stuff", "feelings", "patterns" that were keeping me in the so-called cycle was still there.

One day, I got to the peak of being "so-sick-and-annoyed-with-myself" and desperate for a change. As skeptical as I was, wondering, "would this work", I called Shalini and decided to give it a shot and work with her. To be honest, I must say, EFT was the best thing that happened to me, it was one of THE BEST investments I made in myself.

I have made so many positive shifts in my life in just three months. The way in which I interacted, dealt with situations changed. I am now more aware of my actions which in turn allows me to stop running my life on auto-pilot, responding and making decisions coming from a place of authenticity rather than fear and unworthiness. I now feel that I am the pilot and the architect of my own life. 
My interactions and my relationships with family, others and myself are in a more harmonious place. I am very happy with the way things have changed for the better.

I still use EFT in my daily life now and all I can say is, I am just grateful. Thank you Shalini for being so wonderful to help share your knowledge and coach me, I feel that I can create the life I want, I can be where I want to be, I achieve whatever I want to achieve, I am becoming more lovable to myself and loving life more and more each day. THANK YOU!!!!

Artist & Actor (name not given for privacy)

Shalini is an Emotional and Physical Pain Relief Expert. She is a certified Advanced EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) Practitioner. She holds a Bachelor's Degree in Psychology and a Master's in Social Work from Delhi University, India. She also holds a Certificate of Participation in Radical Healing, Emotional Empowerment Therapy and is a certified Reiki Level 1 practitioner.

Shalini began using EFT to relieve herself from her physical pain. As she used the EFT Technique, she instantly discovered reductions in her pain levels. Following EFT's Personal Peace Procedure, she worked on "letting go" of all the old hurts, angers and pain. Practicing EFT for about an hour or two everyday for almost a month, she not only freed herself completely from every single pain in her body, but discovered a deep passion to empower others to help themselves using EFT.

Shalini is now focused on working long term with a small group of clients who are tired of feeling "stuck" in their situation and are "ready" and "committed" to bringing in BIG SHIFTS that they seek in their lives.